A friend of mine agreed to dive into the world of Mahler and I'm going all in. The only problem is I don't know which recordings to show them because I don't remember what it's like to hear Mahler's music for the first time. My basic criteria are: good modern sound (1990 and onwards), is widely available (Spotify, etc.), generally middle-of-the-road interpretation, preferably not noticeably live, and a recording that captures the spirit of the work. I have a few picked out, but the rest I can't decide on. These aren't my own personal favorites, but rather recordings that I think would be best-suited for someone who is hearing the music for the very first time.
Here's what I have so far:
Das klagende Lied: Tilson Thomas/SFSO
Lieder eines fahrenden Gesellen: Nagano/Gerhaher/Montréal
M1: Bernstein/RCO... probably.
Des Knaben Wunderhorn: Chailly/Bonney/Fulgoni/Winbergh/Goerne/RCO (open to other suggestions)
M2: Not sure yet... torn between Vänskä/Minnesota, Fischer/Budapest, Nott/Bamberg. Bernstein (DG) is too extreme for a first-timer (though amazing).
M3: Chailly/RCO... probably.
M4: Between Salonen/LAPO, Fischer/Düsseldorf, Chailly/RCO, and Vänskä/Minnesota.
Rückert-Lieder: Gardiner/Otter/NDR (open to suggestions)
M5: I truly don't know... I'm thinking maybe Stenz/Melbourne, Gielen/SWR, or even Harding/SRSO.
M6: Also not sure... I want powerful Hammerschläge and loud, staccato timpani prominently bringing forth the fate rhythm motifs in the first and last movements. I was thinking Abbado/BPO but you can hardly hear the deep bells in the finale. Jansons/LSO is a decent choice. Vänskä has all the details but conducts like a robot (but would a first-time listener even pick up on that?). I don't want Bernstein/VPO because he has 3 hammer blows (not the norm, so probably not a good choice for a first-timer).
Kindertotenlieder: Chailly/Fassbaender/DSOB or Barbirolli/Baker/Hallé (though the sound is certainly dated).
M7: Also don't know... I want to do Stenz/Gürzenich but he's too quick in the second and third movements. Nott/Bamberg is my most likely choice.
M8: I'm thinking Nagano/DSOB. He captures the essence of the work better than most, and the sound is amazing. If the Bertini were available on streaming services I would choose that. I'm also considering the Boulez.
Das Lied von der Erde: Any choice for this one will be controversial, but I'm probably going with Giulini/Fassbaender/Araiza/BPO (sound holds up incredibly well).
M9: I'm pretty set on Gilbert/Stockholm, but I might change my mind and go with Chailly/RCO. I just like Gilbert's pacing much better.
M10: Also always controversial, but I might go with Nézet-Séguin/OM. I didn't want to choose Chailly/DSOB because he uses Cooke II. I might also switch to Dausgaard/Seattle.
What would you choose to show someone who has never heard Mahler before, let alone hardly any classical music?