Not expecting to find it, I stumbled upon the Feder book in a new store in S.F. today. "If I were a rich man", I'd buy this book. Anyway, I did read a couple of chapters from it. As Feder delves into Mahler's and Alma's psychological motivations, much of it comes across as very sad. Mahler took big chances when it came to women, and he paid a dear price for it. Feder doesn't flinch in the slightest in presenting the truths and details about Alma's numerous affairs. In fact, I think that the book may focus a bit too much on Alma, in general. But neither does Feder beat up on her. Instead, he tries to present what motivated and drove her to make the sorts of decisions that she ended up making. After Mahler's death, this was a very mixed up young woman who sort of reverted back to age 18. As much as it's tempting to think of their relationship as being totally unique, it really could happen to most anybody today, I think. We always have to keep in mind that Mahler was no picnic either.
Another sad affair, was Mahler's almost opportunistic using of Natalie Bauer-Lechner. Eventually, Mahler became repulsed by her. Natalie badly set herself up for a fall, and she fell disasterously indeed. It all came to a crashing end with Mahler's engagement to Shindler's daughter: Alma.
If there is a heart warming moment in the entire book, it's the chapter that goes into a fair amount of detail on the premiere of the 8th symphony in Munich. This event was a triumph in every possible way, in spite of Mahler's failing health, and the knowledge of Alma's ongoing affair with Gropius. After the performance, which started out almost like a religious get-together, many eyewitnesses were startled by the sight of hundreds of short arms and tiny hands - children - reaching out to Mahler. Mahler moved into the center of them, and received a laurel (and hardy handshake - a line I'm taking straight out of "Blazing Saddles"). Feder makes the suggestion that for Mahler, this was like the spirit of his dead daughter reaching out to him a-hundred-fold (whatever that saying is). I suspect that it was the highlight of his entire life. Allegedly, many people weeped at this sight, and the applause went on for a solid half-hour. If I had a time machine, this would absolutely be my first destination.