I can only read what you all have to say, for I have few box sets, and probably wouldn't know where to begin to make worthwhile suggestions anyway. My general preference is for live recordings. In applying that preference to box sets, I suppose I would select the NYPO Mahler Broadcasts set. In it you get a variety of conductors and, if the performance was during the asthma/flu/cold season, there is a lot of audience participation.
I believe it is the only recording commercially available of Sir John Barbirolli's 1959 colorful treatment of the Third Movement of M 1--it remains a mystery how he persuaded the NYPO to play like slightly tipsy street musicians. It's a must-hear.
The other box set with live recordings is the Haitink Kerstmatinees collection, which doesn't seem to be available in this country--but you can order it from the Netherlands. The box is worth having by itself, for it has a photo of Haitink with an
expression on his face and a clearly active gesture with a
fist. Have you seen it, Barry?
Instead of getting the box sets, I usually end up acquiring the contents piecemeal, either before they were issued as a set--as in the case of Chailly--or after the set is no longer available.
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