Just found this thread - wondering if there is any progress....?
Here is my (quick) story: I am a 20th century fanatic first and foremost - romanticism was never my bag. I bought M5 (lenny DG), M6 (Boulez), and M7 (Boulez) from BMG years ago. Hated it...hated it...hated it..hated it. Longwinded...boring...schmaltzy....WAY too much hype. It actually pissed me off that GM was so highly regarded - it became a bad attitude on my part and i actually wanted to hate this music. Anyway, fast forward a bit - I somehow fell in love with Prokofiev Symphony No. 5. The "romantic" qualities somehow spoke to me and I found myself deciding to try the three Mahler recordings i still owned. One summer night with headphones I tossed in M5 and listened to it from soup-to-nuts. I couldn't believe it....I actually liked it. No, I loved it. How could this be? I followed suit with M6 and M7 - same thing. I then started to collect M5's - I was almost addicted to that piece. I read a ton of reviews at Amazon, etc. fast forward again - - - I eventually made my way through the entire symphonies, and became obsessed like the rest of the freaks here
Dare I say that gun to my head - GM is now my favorite. Surpassing Ives, Stravinsky, Bartok, Messiaen, Ravel, Carter, Webern, Debussy, Ligeti, Lutoslawski, Schoenberg, Bach, Copland, etc by an inch or so.
I am obsessed with his music and I have no apologies saying that he wrote the greatest set of symphonies in the HISTORY of music. He actually spoiled music for me - I basically cant listen to any symphonies that came before him, maybe with the exception of Beethoven 3 and 9. Everything else seems inferior at this point. Sorry, but that is the way it is. In order for music to get on equal par with Mahler for my ears, I have to look forward, not backwards.
Don't give up man! Don't! Try, try, try and try again.
Here is my suggestion:
1) Get modern versions of the symphonies in stunning sound
2) Listen to the following movements for an entire week - every day - even if it is painful:
M1 - 4th mvt
M2 - 5th mvt
M3 - 1st and 6th mvt
M5 - 1st mvt, 4th mvt
M6 - Andante
M7 - 1st mvt
Listen until you can recognize the melodies - possibly sing along. Do it and dont give up. Once the bug bites, the rest is history and you better start saving your coin because Mahler is an expensive hobby!
Mahler forever!!!!!!!!!!!